I WoNdeR..

I kept asking to myself and I never got the answer, there are something and it’s just the way they are..

I wonder..

If a child comes from hostel, for the first three days or so he or she is treated like a special guest, all the family members around the kid and all the special attention too.

When a person gets fever he gets attention too. Fever doesn’t last long and thank to it’s attribute as another time to get pampered. What if a person is suffering from long time illness?? May be some days of attention and then no one will actually care. For the first few days she’s been asked if she has pain and how is she feeling.. but later who cares? Who asks? Who pampers? No sympathy required of coarse but I think human gets to be so busy that at times they need a reason to see what is important which they are not able to see. These days people look for an opportunity to celebrate or else they don’t have time for celebration in their busy schedule.

People celebrate Valentine day just as a excuse to make their love one special. Actually if you see, you don’t require a noted date to express feelings and spend time but for busy people it works like and excuse or lets say reminder... “Hey time for love” what a stupid thing.

Rakhi, another day to remind brothers that their sisters are important and vice versa.

Diwali, time to be home together. I actually used to wait for this day when my brother used to get holiday from hostel and we all family members once in a year used to be together, another excuse to be together. Thanks god its there.

If a person dies we remember all his goodness, what that person meant to us. Did we actually think of the person so much in normal time?

A daughter gets married leaves her house, leaves the path where she grew up and during the last minutes when she is departing, every one gathers to see that she is leaving, to say her goodbye. Everyone cries who matters. Do they shed a drop of tear before and told her that they will miss her so much and that she was important part of them?

And the list goes on.

Things happen and we realise their important. Like a football player loses his legs which makes him realise that his legs were most important to him. We lose our friends and we realise they were important and we didn’t give them time when they were nearby. People gets busy in their life they forget importance of relations and lacks expression which needs an excuse day or a reminder or some incident to remind that there are something left untouched, unseen, not considered...

If you are surrounded by people who gives you hug for no reason consider yourself lucky, cause there are some people who are so lonely and dying for a hug and some polite words.