Reflection

There is a very beautiful quote that says

I have learned that good-byes will always hurt, pictures will never replace having been there, memories good and bad will bring tears, and words can never replace feelings.

A day to leave Bangalore... I don't know how to react to this.

I'll miss my friends as there will be less contacts and calls too.

I hope this time I don't lose out on another single friend because of distance.

I spoke to so many people over a topic "if it's good to keep memories or not."

Different people have different views. But still I haven't come through, which is very convincing.

Some people keep themselves away from memories because it hurts. I don't know if they are being strong living that way as they feel they understand what's good and bad for them or should I say they are actually being weak running away from it as they don't want to face it.

To change a person may take a minute or an hour; some do not change at all if they don't need to. Change is an integral part of life; in fact the only constant in life. It's tough but that's the way it is.

I realize if I'm not accepting changes I can't move forward in life.

If life itself has an end to it then my soul is not an exception too. It's not a big deal.

Like it's said we don't choose our journeys they choose us... in the same way changes are made to make difference in life. Initially it feels difficult to go with it but later we get used to it. It's like getting comfortable with a new class, a new school and new friends. First few days feel strange and challenging but later that place and people..

THE VERY OWN CHANGE makes this world the best place to live in.

I wonder if there must be a single soul who understands life clearly. If he or she had an answer why things happens and how to tackle it.

We learn from our family, friends but at times there are some questions which do

not have answers. It's still a mystery.

People have different opinions like an open ended question and there isn't one right answer to it.

I found the below thoughts in one of the websites. It touched my heart so i pasted it here. Every time I read it I feel I'm Reading it for the first time. Hope you guys like it too.

I sit here tonight with thoughts of you.
Wishing you were here with me like I always do.
I know that we will be together again some day.
When that day comes we will have nothing but smiles on our faces and our skies no longer grey.
In this time that we are apart, I know that we are in one anothers heart.
We always will be, just like we were from the start.
You are a part of me, and I am a part of you.
That is something so special and very true.
Your gentle touch I miss so much. How could someone keep something away from us,
that is so precious as such.
I do know, when there is a will there is a way.
I promise you we will be together forever again one day.
Until then, always remember that I love you forever.
Also know, that is something none can take away, ever...

Heart Breaks

I found this Poem some where>>


As time passed by My dreams fade away That I may not be Coming back your way I do not know What life holds for me? Wonder what my fate is I couldn’t save my distress You entered suddenly And enchanted me like magnet But what you did at last Still I can not understand My nights going with out dreams And days are also gray If you wanted break my heart Why you brought me in this way? When I sleep at night You taunting me in dreams Tell me why you had to lie If it was your real love Every time in every second Every where in everything I was just trying to find What I have lost in your love I don’t forgive you ever Coz you put me in tear You made my soul to cry Till the end of my life

There is this neighbor of mine called Sultana who talks a lot.. and she gave me a file of a song called someone's watching over me by Hilary Duff. she said i need to listen to this song as it ensures positive energy. She always suggested me to keep faith in myself and to b strong so that i can overcome my mood swing and m ready to accept thing, face the world in new way, forget the past memories which could harm me now.. Forgetting past isn't so easy if its so beautiful. Another friend of mine too suggested not to keep things that reminds me of my friends and some moments but i cant trash those things which are part of my life.. i have a habit to collecting small things and saving them.. like movie tickets, parking tickets, scrap book, paper full of chats during classes, broken ear rings, any thing possible..
Any way here goes the lyric of the song>>

I found myself today
Oh, I found myself
And ran away
But something pulled me back
Voice of reason
I forgot I had

All I know is you're not here to say
But you always used to say
And it's written in the sky tonight

So I won't give up
No, I wont break down
Sooner than it seems life turns around
And I will be strong
Even if it all goes wrong
When I'm standing in the dark I'll still believe
Someone's watching over me

Seen that ray of light
And it's shining on my destiny
Shining all the time
And I won't be afraid
To follow everywhere it's taking me

All I know is yesterday is gone
And right now I belong
To this moment
To my dreams

So I won't give up
No, I wont break down
Sooner than it seems life turns around
And I will be strong
Even if it all goes wrong
When I'm standing in the dark I'll still believe
Someone's watching over me

It doesn't matter what people say
And it doesn't matter how long it takes
Believe in yourself and you'll fly high

And it only matters how true you are
Be true to yourself
And follow your heart

So I won't give up
No, I wont break down
Sooner than it seems life turns around
And I will be strong
Even if it all goes wrong
When I'm standing in the dark I'll still believe

That I wont give up
No, I won't break down
Sooner than it seems life turns around
And I will be strong
Even if it all goes wrong
When I'm standing in the dark I'll still believe
That someone's watching over,
Someone's watching over,
Someone's watching over me