Friday, April 10, 2009

Reflection

 

WAY BACK TO EARLY POST… REPUBLISHING IT AGAIN AS I HAVE NOTHING TO DECLARE ..

There is a very beautiful quote that says

Good-byes will always hurt, pictures will never replace having been there, memories good and bad will bring tears, and words can never replace feelings.

I spoke to so many people over a topic "if it's good to keep memories or not."

Different people have different views. But still I haven't come through, which is very convincing.

Some people keep themselves away from memories because it hurts. I don't know if they are being strong living that way as they feel they understand what's good and bad for them or should I say they are actually being weak running away from it as they don't want to face it.

To change a person may take a minute or an hour; some do not change at all if they don't need to. Change is an integral part of life; in fact the only constant in life. It's tough but that's the way it is.

I realize if I'm not accepting changes I can't move forward in life.

If life itself has an end to it then my soul is not an exception too. It's not a big deal.

Like it's said we don't choose our journeys they choose us... in the same way changes are made to make difference in life. Initially it feels difficult to go with it but later we get used to it. It's like getting comfortable with a new class, a new school and new friends. First few days feel strange and challenging but later that place and people..

THE VERY OWN CHANGE makes this world the best place to live in.

I wonder if there must be a single soul who understands life clearly. If he or she had an answer why things happens and how to tackle it.

We learn from our family, friends but at times there are some questions which do

not have answers. It's still a mystery.

People have different opinions like an open ended question and there isn't one right answer to it.

 

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17 comments:

Mads said...

i liked this post...truly a reflection type of post.
well written che nidhi mangal :-w

Anya said...

memories are for learning stuff.. good one


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peter said...

Gud memories shud be preserved.
Bad memories shud be preserved too .provided it teaches u something and u can withstand it !

Nikhil Menon said...

memories,good or bad stay back within me..good memories act as those flashbulb moments during those bad times so that u really are inspired to get back on ur feet..bad memories are testimony to whatever has hpnd and they act as a model,so that those times if avoidable aren't repeated.. :)

Nikhil

Arv said...

I like them all... memories... my life would be odd without them :)

I loved the last lines :)

take care... cheers...

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MJ said...

if sumone dont have memories then probably they dont have a life.
because in life its the journey that counts and not the destination
when they reach the end (inevitable) they wil be able to turn back and say "well... i had a good run" one is souless without memories

Nidz said...

@mads- kuch aur bhi bolsakti thi :-w

pisku said...

Loved the last line

There is no right answer!

♥ÐÅyÐяєÅмє®♥ said...

memories always give pleasure..so one shudnt be too tough on them...thre are ample of good moments associated with bad moments so if u throw out the bad moments ..u will lose the good ones too ..that is life

and no one understand life fully..everyone reach to different comclusion abt thins..one should choose the best and act upon it :)

tinkerbell said...

i wouldnt be me without memories to reminisce... people come n people go.. its a part of life..

a senior i was really attached to in school saw me sobbing my heart out on her farewell.. her words have remained etched in my heart evr since- we meet to part, n part to meet again..

in solitude, its the memories we live with anyway..

Think Tank said...

u can't do without memories ..u'd just be an empty shell ..our memories make us ..gud or bad

Lena said...

you cant run from memories, you cant close your mind and cut them down.. they are a part of you and your journey.. they make you - YOU - unique and personified. Without memories there are no lessons, no lessons - no experience... no experience and you are losing yourself.

Amritorupa Kanjilal said...

hi nidzzi, what a lovely blog you have! it was my first visit here and i loved it very very much. hope to keep coming back for more...
take care, do visit...

enchantinganki said...

be it good or bad,just keep it!
after all,its ur treasure,isnt it??

btw been through ur love story...its awesome..i really wish lots of love to both of u!!

Fantasies of a Lifetime said...

memories , the good ones and bads wouldn't exchange them for anything , although i do try to keep the bad ones locked . . .

And have u been listening to too much of Obama's speeches lately :P . . But I would have to agree Change is an integral part of life :)