It's distracting to think what friendship is all about. There are friends who say they dont want to hurt You, they dont wanna share their sorrows with you, they only wanna see u happy and give you smile.
Whats the use if we cant share both happiness and sorrow. The friendship seems so artificial so incomplete, isn't it??
Whats the use if we cant share both happiness and sorrow. The friendship seems so artificial so incomplete, isn't it??
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our mind and soul are best friends.. we are our own best friends.. no one else could fillin our shoes.. i might sound silly.. but thats the truth
hmm interesting thought there...there hv been a lot of times when i hvnt shared any of my sorrow wid my friends just so that the happy mood doesnt get disrupted... i wudnt call that friendship artificial or incomplete..coz its not sharing something for a good reason behind it....dunno :-| confusing question and really good one there.. :-(
Yes, it is! Agree with Mads as well. many times we choose to fake a smile just to see our loved ones happiness. But thats all momentary. We would indeed get a time when we could pour our heat out and trust me, we should do that. it makes us so light and fresh and happy and dont know wut! having some one to listen to our tears is just like heaven!
nobody better friend than urself :)
Are you allright?
Cheer up.. frnds are meant to b like this.. there has to be sum diff between best frnds and norml frnds..
take it this way...
when u may be distressed, sometimes you try to hide it even from your best frens,coz u feel why to turn their mood off (obviously they wil be sad since u r so), but then you expect ur best buddie to pour out the heart no matter what...
so may be difference lies there..
i agree wid abhinav as well as sam..only u cn be ur true best fren, no one else cn fill the shoes
i dunno wat to write ...i will nt answer this ques :(
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seeya around!
i know, people only want to share the good things and not be there for the bad ones. i think friendship has long ago lost its true values.
unfortunately these days one has very few true friends who one can share his/her joys and sorrows with! :(
added in gtalk.. hop on
wanna see u happy and give you smile
possible ????
no its not fake...its not incomplete...for ur smiles n happiness is wat makes them smile...sharin their sorrows is givin themselves more pain...
i say this coz m like this
It depends coz as u might see,there are a certain kind who ten to stay away from the bad times and cum in hopping wen als well.they really aren friends.but takin me into the context,noone's ready to ;listen to my woes and am thankful to the blog world for its oly here that things are the way I want them to be..
take care..
Keep smiling..
Nikhil
I agree... its all abt sharing happiness and sorrows both... but then we can't expect ppl to relate to us yaar...
Theek hain.. jo samjhey... mast!!
Jo naa samjhey... uski problem... hum toh aisey hain bhaiya...aur aisey hi rahengey...
Hain ki nahi?? ;)
Tu khush reh yaar... teri baatein sun rahein hain naa hum sab... load naa ley!!
i too many time thought d same.. bt i also hide many sad times frm friends.. then i thought, dont i belive or love them completly, bt i was wrong, i love them too much that, i just dont wanna see them sad.. i just dont wanna lose their smile..
these sad things happen and will pass away.. why hurt a loved one, if u cn over come it easily, even knowing they wil help more then i require.. i believe 'let d workd smile, even if u have to b clown'.. :)
yeah..you got it right,mate!!
some friends only share happiness..and if they see a tear..they'll act like they've never seen one ..
Artificial !
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